Played a show with my Misfits cover band last night. It was our third show since last Halloween. It was really good, definitely our best performance yet. I had been really nervous in the days leading up to it because I’m still new to drumming and would struggle occasionally with two of our songs in particular. But I played pretty well at the show, and I was really happy with our overall performance. There were a couple mistakes but we recovered well from them and that’s as satisfying as playing a song well in the first place, oddly enough.
I still have some mixed feelings about the show though. There were lots of young people there for the first two bands so I was like “wow, so cool to see so many young people at an all ages show.” But most of those young people disappeared when the third band played. That band had hardly anyone in there watching so I felt a little bad for them. I had seen lots of Misfits shirts before we played so I imagined the place would fill up again when we played, and we definitely had more people watching us than the third band but not as many as those first two bands, and the kids watching those bands were really into it, dancing around and shit, probably because they are like 16 and excited and overstimulated because it’s all new and exciting to them. The people who were into us are not 16 so they show enjoyment differently. That’s something I understand but still struggle to apply in real life — like, if I don’t see people headbanging or jumping around, I feel like they can’t really be digging it, even though I’m definitely part of the “I’m thoroughly enjoying this but I don’t like headbanging or jumping around anymore” crowd myself. It’s weird, it’s something I need to work on really grasping and accepting.
Despite that, I still felt like I could feel the sedate audience appreciating what we were doing, and that made me happy. Plus me being happy with our performance is paramount, that is easily the most important aspect of every show, every band practice. It just feels good to make a bunch of noise that I love, with good pals. So that aspect was immensely satisfying.
I also feel really relieved that this show is over, that I don’t have to stress about it anymore, dealing with advance tickets and worrying about fucking songs up, etc. But at the same time I’m sad that it’s over, because it turned out to be a lot of fun. Just the usual post-event melancholy, I suppose.
We have another show in two weeks. That one is at Kate’s friend’s house party. I’m not nervous about it now but I bet I will be as we get closer to it. Right now I’m just pumped for it. Seems like it might be a good show for us in that there will be more Misfits fans who know the songs and are pumped to sing along or whatever. Plus I’ll have more bubble tea options in Vic, lol.
Other notable details from last night:
- The venue was weird, very old school Duncan hippie/stoner/art freak collective vibe. Not my scene but I’m very happy it exists.
- After the show, we had packed all the gear into the car. Only two seats left. Ben was going to walk to his airbnb but Jenn and I wanted to give him a ride. Jenn suggested I drive him there, then come back and get her. There were still people at the venue for her to hang out with so I thought it was a good idea. Drove Ben the five minutes or so to his place, came back. Jenn was pissed when I got back and I didn’t understand why but she was pretty drunk so I didn’t worry about too much at the time and figured we’d sort it out today. We got McDonald’s on the way home and Jenn was exceedingly impatient in the drive thru lineup, cursing the night staff and the people ahead of us alike, even though it wasn’t taking too long at all. When we got our food she was snarfling down the fries and said something like “I…I am me. Me fries.” That’s not a direct quote but it was along those lines, and I understood that she meant she was very hungry and very glad to be eating the fries. She was much happier after that. This morning I asked why she had been so mad when I picked her up and she said everyone else left the second I drove away with Ben, and she was left alone in the dark parking lot in a fairly sketchy area. Plus in addition to being drunk she was also on mushrooms and time was passing exceedingly slowly (which also explains her impatience in the McDonald’s drive thru) so she thought I had been gone with Ben for 45 minutes or something, and we off talking metal or looking at metal shirts or sitting cross-legged on a floor somewhere listening to vinyl records. So she walked out to the street and sat under a light on the sidewalk so at least she’d be visible and less likely to be assaulted, and felt like she waited there an eternity for me. I feel bad now because that was definitely not an ideal situation for her to be left in, but we didn’t know it was going to go like that so it’s just kind of a ‘live and learn’ thing. Also, some pretty funny moments came out of it so I’m glad we have those memories now.